SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF AN ACTOR

NOVEMBER 22, 1012

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Dr. Mel Caudle 

 

HAPPY THANKSGIVING

 

Autographed football from Drew Brees after the
Super Bowl win and being name the MVP.
 

Lions, tigers, and bears.  Redskins and Cowboys.  Turkey and dressing.  Family and good times.  All of these are what today represents to us.  It really isn't a Thanksgiving without being able to watch The Macy's parade in the morning, the Dallas Cowboys and the Washington Redskins in the afternoon and The Wizard of Oz at night.  I would be remiss if I didn't throw in a good game of Pictionary. 

 

Needless to say I wasn't disappointed as my day was complete being with my family, getting as stuffed as the turkey, watching football, and taking a much needed nap. 

Then, somewhere between all of this I found time to write the blog, Skype with my family who weren't with me, walk the dogs, and get in the hot tub.  And, did I mention I did all of this at my beach house in Orange Beach, Al.

 

 

The weather is absolutely beautiful and the Gulf of Mexico is blue.  It really doesn't get much better than this.  So, as I sat on my balcony watching the surf I reflected on all of things that I am truly thankful. 

 

Last year at this time I was fighting the oral cancer and just had four implants, this year a perfect Hollywood smile.  Also, last year I wasn't that busy because I had to put a lot of  things on  hold while I recuperated. 

This year, busy, busy, and busier than ever.  I have a new book coming out in the next two weeks, called You Nailed it! How to Audition.  I am also thankful for my family and friends which includes all of you. 

With that, I hope this blog finds you amongst family and friends enjoying the company of each other and sharing a laugh or too.

 

THE SEVEN DEADLY SINS OF AN ACTOR

By Dr. Melissa Caudle

 

Have you ever wondered why some actors get all of the auditions and bookings and no matter what you do you seem to stay in the same place?  I bet you have.  After last week's blog on The Actor's Wheel, I hope you did some own inner searching to get you to the next level.  If you didn't read it, please revisit last week's blog as the information is very valuable to help bolster your career.

This week I am tagging onto the concept of The Actor's Wheel to really help you isolate the areas on the wheel to help you move forward.  Because, sometimes, it isn't the spokes on the wheel keeping you from moving forward, it could be you in committing one of the Seven Deadly Sins of an Actor.  This is what I mean.

 

Last night, we went to dinner at a seafood restaurant called Wentzels.  This eatery is known for two things:  great seafood and the sayings on the walls.  Every inch is filled with sayings, some famous and some not so famous.  On of my favorites is, "Men are like parking spaces.  The good ones are are all taken and the rest are handicapped." 

Another one was of the Seven Deadly Social Sins written by Ghandi.   When I read it, I immediately thought how Ghandi's principles apply to the actor and their career. 

 

 

1.  POLITICS WITHOUT PRINCIPLE

 

The television and film industry is full of politics at every turn.  You know it and I know it.  It isn't sometimes how talented  you are but who you know.  I have to caution each of you as your career  progresses stay away from the politics and make sure you make all of your decisions with your "Principles" in tact.  Don't fall for the casting couch or get sucked into a "He said, she said," game.  It will only hurt you in the end.

 

 

2.  WEALTH WITHOUT WORK

 

Don't ever expect to be wealthy and famous without having to pay your dues and working hard at it.  Nothing comes easy and you really have to work on you and the spokes of your career.  Keep up with industry standards and always hone your skills.  Do what you can do to put your best in front of the casting directors.

 

3.  PLEASURE WITHOUT CONSCIENCE

 

Acting is fun.  If it wasn't why would people do it?  However, there is a fine line with getting  pleasure for pleasures sake and not caring what it does to you and your reputation.  The only thing you need to concentrate on is your integrity.

 

 

 

4. KNOWLEDGE WITHOUT CHARACTER

 

I think this one coincides with pleasure without conscience.  The difference is how you proceed to the top of your career.  Obtain knowledge about your unions, about how the industry works, and of course your own skills.

 

 

 

5.  BUSINESS WITHOUT MORALITY

 

Along the way you are going to be asked to do something that you are not comfortable doing.  My recommendation is stay true to yourself and your morales.  No this going into an audition.  Some actors refuse to do films with nudity in it.  While others may have a moral issue with the plot or something that a character must do or say.  Simply tell your agent and manager your limitations and restrictions.  This is a good thing.

 

 

6.  SCIENCE WITHOUT HUMANITY

 

You might be asking how in the world does science without humanity have to do with acting and your career.  Well it does.  Acting is a science.  You get to experiment with what works and what doesn't.  If you find that one headshot isn't doing it for you, change it.  The same goes for your demo reel. 

 

 

 

7.  WORSHIP WITHOUT SACRIFICE

 

Again, as an actor there will be sacrifices that you will have to make.  One huge one is the time away from your family you spend auditioning and taking classes.  Then, of course, when you land the role of your dreams, the time on set which averages 12 to 14 hours a day.

 

 

 

There will be other sacrifices as well which includes having to budget to make ends meet or not driving a new car.  Just remember, everything worth having and obtaining is worth waiting and working toward.  This includes making it in this industry.  My advice, comes from Ghandi.  Ghandi expressed that it was his life that was his message.  May your life be yours on this Thanksgiving night.

 

DEAR DIARY

By Robby Cook Stroud

Dear Diary,

This is one Thanksgiving I am truly thankful.

 

It has been a very long time since I’ve been at home on this day with my family. I am still deployed , but I am at home spending quality time.

 

Last year I was in Pennsylvania.

 

Today I look back on the many Thanksgiving days that I have spent in the field.  The great thing about this is I get to spend the day with many different  type of families and see how they celebrate. Plus, I get to eat many dishes I wouldn’t otherwise have the chance to eat. It seems, none of them let me leave hungry.

 

I hope that all the inspectors in the field today get the same opportunity,  especially my peers in New York and New Jersey who are working endless hours in some of the worse conditions. May the victims of Hurricane Sandy find peace, love, and security and find away to be thankful.   Just remember there will be a light at the end of the dark tunnel.  It just may not seem that way right now as you face devestation in the holiday season.

 

As I looked back on the many holidays that I have been deployed,  I can think of many memorable stories and those that I am thankful. How about the one where I go to a house and the little ole granny has fixed a feast and had no one to share it with until I came along. It really made her day that I came over on this special day.  Then, the next family I went to see didn’t have any money for "turkey day," so I immediately went to the store and purchased  one already cooked and took it back to them.  The children were ecstatic, it was like Christmas to them. 

 

It is a blessing to be able to help those in need whether it be a gift of a turkey or just a shared moment in time.  I am very thankful for all of those special moments. 

 

Now, I want to wish all of you and your families Happy Holidays and if you can make the difference in someone’s life today,    DO IT!

 

LACA NOLA ACTOR SPOTLIGHT

 

This week's spotlight actor is Bill Ensley.  We first came across Bill during the auditions for THE KEYSTROKE KILLER.  If you are interested in booking Bill for your film or television project contact LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP at 504-301-8000 or email:  lacanola.talentagent@gmail.com.  Congratulations Bill for making this week's spotlight

 

 

BILL ENSLEYSAG/AFTRA ELIGIABLEIMDB

Bill is an intriguing actor with hazel eyes that have the ability to look through the soul of the audience on the big screen. Having studied the Meisner Technique of acting under John Ruskin, Bill taps into his experiences to bring all of his characters to life.

Special Skills: Billiards, Boating, Bowling, Boxing, Rifle, Skeet, Snorkeling, Impressionist, Cooking, Fishing

MARKET: EAST COAST AND SOUTHERN REGION CATEGORY: TELEVISION/FILM/COMMERCIAL
LOS ANGELES MARKET available Prestige Talent Agency (Nathan) - we can connect you.

DEMO REEL DEMO REEL
Websites: http://billensley.intuitwebsites.com/

http://resumes.actorsaccess.com/billensley

 

WHAT TO DO WITH TURKEY LEFTOVERS

 

If you are like my family, you have an entire refridgerator full of leftovers.  Sit back with joy knowing there are delicious ways to use your leftovers.  Here are a couple of mine.

 

Christmas Holiday Brunch Egg Bake
3 cups of shredded Mozzarella cheese
3 cups of shredded cheddar cheese
4 oz. can sliced mushrooms, drained
8 oz. cooked ham, cut into fine julienne strips
1/4 cup of margarine, melted
1 3/4 cups of milk
8 eggs, beaten
1/3 cup of sliced green onion
2 tablespoons of fresh snipped parsley
1/2 cup of flour

In a large bowl, lightly toss cheeses together. Sprinkle half of the cheese mixture in an ungreased 9 x 13 inch baking dish. In medium skillet, cook mushrooms and green onions in the margarine, until onions are tender. Arrange vegetables over cheese. Arrange ham strips over vegetables. Sprinkle remaining cheese over ham. (To make ahead, prepare to this point, cover and refrigerate.) Heat oven to 350 degrees. Lightly spoon flour into measuring cup; level off. In large bowl using a wire whisk, blend flour, milk, parsley and eggs; pour over layers in baking dish. Bake at 350 degrees for 35 to 45 minutes or until mixture is set and top is lightly browned. Let stand about 10 minutes. Cut into squares and garnish with fresh parsley. Serves 12.

Delicious Turkey and Apple Bake
1/4 cup chopped onion
1Tbsp butter or margarine
2 (10.75 ounce) cans condensed cream of chicken soup, undiluted
3 cups cubed cooked turkey
1 large unpeeled tart apples, cubed
1/3 cup golden raisins
1 tsp lemon juice
1/4 tsp ground nutmeg
1 (9 inch) pie crustPreheat oven to 425 degrees. Over medium heat melt butter in a saucepan. Add onion and sauté until translucent. Mix in the soup, turkey, apples, raisins, lemon juice and nutmeg. Be sure to mix all ingredients together well. Heat until just heated through. In a large ungreased baking dish place soup mixture. Roll out pie crust on a floured surface. Place rolled pie crust over top of soup mixture being sure to tuck sides of pie crust down sides of dish. Cut slits in top of crust to allow steam to escape. Place in oven for 30 to 35 minutes or until top is brown.
Thanksgiving Leftover Pot Pie

1 medium onion, chopped
1 cup carrots, sliced
1 cup celery, diced
1 tablespoon vegetable oil
1 package (9 oz.) frozen chopped spinach
3 cups cooked turkey
1/2 cups country or baked ham
1 can (10 3/4 oz.) canned cream of chicken soup
2 1/2 cup milk, divided
1/4 teaspoon black pepper
1 1/2 cup self-rising flour
1/4 cup Parmesan cheese
1/2 cup butter or margarine


Cook onion, sliced carrots and celery with a little bit of vegetable oil in the skillet under just tender. Stir in the spinach and pour it all into a shallow baking dish (at least 3 quarts or bigger). Spread the chopped turkey and ham cubes evenly over top of everything in the dish. Next, in a medium mixing bowl blend together undiluted soup, 1 cup of milk and ground pepper. Pour this evenly over top of everything in the dish. Now mix together the flour, grated cheese, butter (or margarine) and remaining milk until nice and smooth. Pour this over top of everything in the dish. Bake 45 minutes to one hour at 400 degrees F. The top will be golden brown when done.


Yummy Leftover Turkey Soup

1 leftover turkey carcass
3 medium onions, chopped
2 large carrots, diced
2 celery ribs, diced
1 cup butter, cubed
1 cup all-purpose flour
2 cups half-and-half cream
1 cup uncooked long grain rice
2 tsp salt
1 tsp chicken bouillon granules
3/4 tsp pepper

In a large kettle place leftover turkey carcass and cover with water. On high heat bring water to a rapid boil. Lower heat, cover and allow simmering for an hour. Remove turkey carcass and allow cooling to room temperature. Strain broth into large bowl. Reserve strained broth. Be sure to save any piece of turkey meat before empting strainer. Remove any turkey meat that remains on the carcass. Cut meat into bite size pieces or shred. Place butter in clean kettle over medium heat melting butter completely. Add unions, carrots and celery. Sauté until onion is translucent and carrots and celery have softened to your liking. Lower heat to lowest setting. Blend in flour until completely moistened. Add 1/3 of the reserved broth to kettle stirring to mix all ingredients together well. Bring to a rapid boil and cook uncovered for 2 minutes or until mixture thickens. Add half and half, rice, salt, pepper, chicken bouillon and remaining broth. Bring back to a rapid boil. Add turkey meat. Lower heat, cover and simmer for about 1 hour.

 HAPPY THANKSGIVING AND SAFE TRAVELS!



MAKING A CONNECTION WITH YOUR TALENT AGENT

NOVEMBER 15, 2012

This weeks feature article is about how to make a connection with your talent agent using  the "Actors Wheel"  marketing strategy to land a role.  Read after Dr. Mel's Weekly Message.


DR. MEL'S WEEKLY MESSAGE

NEVER SAY NEVER

This week I don't even know where to begin.  In fact, I don't even know if I have slept since last week's blog as I have been multi-tasking almost 24 hours a day.

If you would have told me eight months ago that Robby and I would be owners of a talent agency, I would have laughed so hard that I would have cried.  Really?  A talent agency.

With that thought, for the first time in my life I understand what it means to say, "Never Say Never."  I have also learned that if there is a will there is a way as my days have been completely encompassed with the film industry, actors, casting directors, managers, producers, screenwriters, novelists, and musicians.  I guess I can officially say that I am out of retirement and completely in the game.

So, how did my first week as a talent agent go?  Honestly, it doesn't feel any different from what I was doing before. Except now, I have adopted dozens of actors to take with me on my journey and I am on the other side of the fence.  I take this to heart and personally promise to give you the respect and representation you deserve.

"There are only 24 hours in a day and I use every one."
 Dr. Mel Caudle

Luckily for me, I haven't had to have a learning curve.  Having worked as a casting director, producer, and director, I know how to identify talent and find talent who fit roles perfectly.  I've always done that, except I was the one negotiating the contracts from the producers side with the agents.  Now, producers and casting directors will be negotiating with me for you.  Therefore, the learning curve is null and void as I am very proficient in all levels of SAG/AFTRA, AEA, and many other union; e.g., WGA, DGA, contracts.  The same goes for cast and crew deal memos, deal points, and all SAG casting, audition, callback, and booking procedures.  I thank my blessings for this.  Needless to say, I'll be the one handling that up at LACA NOLA with Robby at my side.

I also didn't have to worry about a learning curve with Breakdown Services having worked with several talent agents, either as an assistant, or during a major casting process.  Also, because I am a SAG actress, although I don't act anymore since going into producing and directing, I was already familiar with the submission process.  The only difference now, I watch out for all of the clients.

There is no learning curve on scheduling auditions and callbacks either.  Not only does my background as a school principal prepare me to handle scheduling, but having cast THE KEYSTROKE KILLER and dealing with more than 4200 auditions and 637 call backs, I know a thing or two in that area as well.

With all of this said, it is no wonder why after 10 days of opening our doors on an average we have submitted every client at the minimum of three roles, some up to 15 roles, and that was before Breakdown Services.  Now, we are really moving forward.

LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP IS ON ACTORS ACCESS

By Robby Cook Stroud

Dr. Mel and I want to personally take the time to thank Richard Simmons of Breakdown Services for working with us to establish the LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP on to Breakdown Services and Actors Access.  Not only did he complete his complete review on us, he was readily available, and still is, in helping us in every step of the way.   With people like him at the helm of Breakdown Services, I can see why they are the number one casting site.  Thanks Breakdown Services and Richard from all of us at LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP.  We thank you as does our talented actors.

Some of the LACA NOLA Talent

Since opening our doors for LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP, lots of exciting things have happened.  We have signed on some fabulous SAG/AFTRA, SAG/AFTRA-E, and NON-UNION talent across the board.  Our actors reside in the following states:  Louisiana, California, New York, Florida, Texas, Colorado, New Mexico, Georgia, Utah, Washington, Nevada, Mississippi, and Arizona.  

It is great to have our wonderful talent as we have been busy submitting you like crazy since becoming members of Breakdown Services and Actors Access.  It is this casting site that we will be using the most along with ProTalent to submit our clients for film, television, and commercial projects.  Therefore, if you aren't a member of these two sites, please join today - they are both free to join.  If you already have an account and LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP is your agency, please add us immediately as your representation.  Additionally, some of our clients are represented by another agency in another area, they too stay listed on your accounts for that market.  You can list more than one.

ABOUT ACTORS ACCESS

By Dr. Mel Caudle

This site is my top choice for our clients.  It is important for you to work with us as your agent to keep your resume up to date.  That means, don't take your profile and resume section on this site lightly as this is the resume casting directors will see when we submit you.  That means, keep it up to date including your past work, bookings, headshots, and demo reels.

www.actorsaccess.com

DEMO REELS ON ACTORS ACCESS

Although posting your resume and two headshots are free on Actors Access, posting more photos, for different looks, and demo reels are not.  Please know how important it is for you to go ahead a pay the extra money to post different looks and at the minimum a composite demo reel.  Why?  As we submit you for feature films with major networks, film and episodic, they are requesting your demo reel.  They will have it at their fingertip if you post one on your Actors Access site.  I have discovered, just in one week's time, that our clients who have fantastic headshots and demo reels are the ones that are getting the requests for auditions almost on a 10 to 1 ratio.  This means, if you are serious about getting booked and selected for an audition, it is that important for casting directors to be able to quickly view your demo reel.  Got it?  

POSITIVE STROKES FOR ACTORS ACCESS

Recently, several of our clients have asked me about other casting sites etc.  To me, we go to Actors Access first, for many reasons:

- It is the ONLY casting site that is directly connected to the legal casting breakdowns that agents and casting directors receive on a daily basis.

- It is good for on-camera auditions in general. We focus on the SAG projects.

- It is free to register and and links you with us. 

- Offers a Showfax account which allows you to download sides and scripts for your auditions.

- We have the ability to review your submissions and communications with producers and directors for your records.

- Your Actors Access account is link with the ProTalent Software.

MAKING THE CONNECTION WITH YOUR TALENT AGENT

The Actors Wheel

By Dr. Mel Caudle

One of the most important things to remember when you sign with an agency or agent is to remember that you are part of the team.  Your agent is only one part of the team.  I like to think of this team in terms of a wagon wheel analogy that has five spokes.  Each spoke represents an important element of the team.  Let me explain.

As an actor there are many elements that you need to surround yourself with in order to get you a job.  Like a wagon wheel that is circular with six spokes, an actor is at the hub of the wheel.  All spokes are attached to the actor in order for the actor to get booked.  

What happens to a wagon wheel when one of the spokes are missing?  Think in terms of a wagon, with four wheels, and one of the wheels is missing a spoke.  When the driver hitches the horses to pull the wagon, the wagon wobbles and doesn't roll forward like it was designed.  

The same thing happens to an actor when they are missing one of the spokes in their actor's wheel.  The actor wobbles along, slowly getting in the direction they want to go.  Yet, it takes them longer to arrives, just like the wagon with a wheel missing a spoke.

Now, what happens if the wagon wheel is missing two spokes?  Three spokes?  Four spokes?  You get the picture don't you?  The wagon struggles to gain distance, if any. And, if it happens to get stuck in the mud, it doesn't go anywhere.  Besides being wobbly, it is now broken down greatly in need of repair.  The owner of the wagon has two choices - repair it or ditch it.

As actors, you are often "Ditched" by your agent or agency because you aren't landing auditions or roles.  They give up on you instead of focusing on the spokes in your Actor's Wheel.  

The important spokes for your wheel are:

• Obtaining an Agent
• Building and keeping your resume up to date which includes taking classes and honing your skills
• Professional headshots that look like you as you currently are and not outdated
• Having a demo reel easily accessible to casting directors, e.g., your own website
• Having an official site for submissions; e.g., Actors Access
• IMDB listing for your credits

Now that you know these spokes on your "Actor Wheel" it is time for you to evaluate your own.  If you don't have an agent, seek one.  Check them out before you sign with them as you should with any business decision.  Things to look for in an agent include:

• Knowledge of the industry, e.g., SAG, casting, procedures
• Type of clients who they represent
• Determine willingness to market you as their client
• SAG Franchised.  If they aren't why not?  Keep in mind that not all agents can become SAG franchised if they are operating in a "Right to Work State."
• Length of the contract.
• Steps to break the contract.
• Commission scale.
• How they intend on marketing you as an actor; e.g., websites, blogs, etc.
• And, ask, "Can you work with this agent?"

Make sure your resume and headshots are always up to date on your Actors Access account and personal websites.  Don't ever use out of date headshots that were taken twenty years earlier or overly refinished.  There is nothing worse than for a casting director to look at your headshot, want you as you are, then for you to show up for the audition and look nothing like your headshot.  That is a HUGE TABOO in this industry.

Find a way to get a demo reel, even if you have to film it yourself with a friend.  Nowadays, casting directors want to see you on camera before they meet you in person.

Lastly, make sure that once a project is completed filming that you are listed on the IMDB page for that project.  You can always add yourself.

www.lacanola.com

504-301-8000

As a talent agent with LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP it is our philosophy not to "Ditch" our clients if they aren't getting auditions or bookings although we are submitting you like crazy. When this happens, as part of your Actor's Wheel, it will be time for us to evaluate together all areas of the spokes to determine a strategy.  We'll have to look at all elements.  

• Is it because your headshots are outdated?  
• Maybe, you don't have a demo reel, so you'll have to get one.  
• It could also be that you lack the skills or specialty skills, so classes and coaching would be in order.  
• Maybe, it is because you aren't keeping your resume up to date.  

Like I pointed out, it could be one element or several of them.  It will be both of our jobs to figure it out with the ultimate goal of getting you booked on a major film or television program.  With the right agent, it can and will happen.  Never discount that.

LACA NOLA ACTOR SPOTLIGHT

We are very proud to feature Blanca Avalos this week as our spotlight actor of the week.  Congratulations Blanca.

BLANCA AVALOS
SAG/AFTRA
IMBD

Blanca is a rare gem in the film and television industry with her unique looks, physical attributes, and dynamic acting skills.  If you are looking for a powerful and inner strength for a strong female lead role, then you want Blanca.  Not only is she dynamic, but her skills allow her to bring that power to the big screen.  She has had numerous lead and supporting roles in films projects including "Shadow of the Monarch," "Brads Bliss," "About Face," and the Columbia Picture, "First Last Kiss."  Additionally, she is no stranger to the television industry as she as a co-star role in the series "House of Cards," and a featured role on the HBO series "The Wire."

Special Skills:  Bilingual (Spanish/English), Tae Kwan Do,  Firearms, Volleyball, Track, Flight Attendant, Motorcycle Rider

MARKET:  NATIONAL     CATEGORY:  FILM AND TELEVISION

If you are interested in booking Blanca contact LACA NOLA TALENT GROUP or give us a call at 504-301-8000.

Dealing with Rejection in the Film Industry

OCTOBER 18, 2012

DR. MEL'S WEEKLY MESSAGE

Hello fellow filmmakers.  And, by filmmakers I am referring to all of us who are involved in the film industry whether you are a producer, director, actor, investor, or crew.  In one way or another we are all connected to this industry.  We love the industry, we love working in the industry, and we love watching the results on our televisions, movie screens, and computers.  

I really can't think of a better industry.

However, as good as this industry gets, there are times when we all get frustrated, and no matter how hard we try we just can't seem to get the break we want and honestly that we deserve.  At every step of the way, I have often felt that as soon as I make headway with one-step forward, it seems that I get hit with three-steps backwards.  Well, that was until I finally figured how to cope with the setbacks and the rejections in this industry.  

It is very important to think of the definition of "rejection" differently from its actual meaning.  To me, the original definition is very negative and I really don't like it associated with this industry.  According to Webster's Dictionary, rejections means to refuse to accept or failure to accept a medical procedure and really doesn't match an actor being passed on by a director or a screenwriter by a production company.  Therefore, replace the definition with more of a positive meaning such as, "Rejection in the film industry is a beginning to search for another opportunity for an actor, screenwriter, director, or producer."  But, because the term is used frequently in this industry at all levels, I'll stick with the word for this article; but know that I mean it by my new definition. 

You see, it hasn't always been easy for me in this industry.  I am often accused of being lucky.  Like hell I am.  I work hard at everything I do.  If I stopped reaching for my dreams every time I received a rejection, I wouldn't be here writing this blog.  In fact, I probably would have been living on the beach somewhere, suntanning, reading a good book by Candy O'Donnell or Gypsy Elise, and boating.  Now, that sounds like a great life.  After all, I did retire in 2001 from education only to get bored in retirement and somehow find my way in the film industry.

Photo by Tim Moree'

Once in the film industry, I fell in love with it.  In fact, I fell in love with everything about it other than the rejections.  And, by rejections, first there was all of the rejections to find an agent.  Then, rejection after rejection with auditions.  I bet I am safe to say for every 200 auditions, I may have landed one role.  That didn't stop me.  I stuck with it.  

Then I discovered I really loved working behind the scenes.  I volunteered at first just to be able to get on a film set.  I took the opportunity to learn everything I could.  I asked a lot of questions, took jobs as a production assistant and soon found my way working up the ladder.  I think I have done every job with the exception of driving a truck, that's Robby, and the art department.  If you scan my resume you will see what I am talking about.  Again, for every job in the industry I have had, I applied for 100 more that I didn't get.  The funny thing, as a PhD, I was seen as either overqualified, because the degree intimidated them, or under qualified, because I didn't have official training in the area.  Whew!!!  I still didn't let that stop me.  I found away because I didn't give up.  And, frankly, never will.  Neither should you.

I have a quotation on my IMDB page, "When you dare to dream, you dare yourself," and I truly believe this.  This industry is a "daring dream" in which you have to take chances.  Along with those chances comes setbacks and rejections.  It is how you handle these that will make the difference for you in your career and your self-esteem.  

This week alone, I have received at least six phone calls from fellow film industry associates who for some reason or another were told "No" and rejected for something.  Three were actors, who didn't get a role in another film and wanted my opinion on their auditions so they could improve.  One was from a relative, one was from a business associate, and one was a friend.  I am here to tell you, if you plan to continue in this business, then you have to learn to accept and deal with rejection.

There are many reasons why it is important to know how to deal with rejection - what to do about it - and how to move forward without giving up.  I speak from personal experience on this area.  Trust me, over the years I have had to cope with relationships ending, such as dissolving a collaboration with a co-screenwriter, an editor who moved across the pond, an investor pulling out of a film, criticism from friends and foes, being brushed off or ignored; e.g., screenplays turned down, pilot shows rejected, and out right attacks on my integrity, which is another form of rejection.  However, after really getting a sense and understanding of how this industry works really helped me through all of this.  I also developed strategies which can be a real lifeline.

Ways to Cope with Rejection in the Film Industry

When you feel rejected, hurt, angry, disappointed, or let down, because you didn't get a role, your screenplay was turned down, or your television show didn't make the fall line-up, keep in mind that these are normal feelings. All of these emotions certainly play on your self-esteem and usually for the worse.  However, the way you handle your emotions is critical for your future in this business. It is important to remember that rejection and disappointment is everywhere in this industry and lurks at every turn.  But, often, a closed door is an open window into the best opportunity in your life.

You can take your rejection and let it motivate you or you can take your rejection and let it destroy you with insecurity.  I always use rejections and the "No's" in my life as a motivating force.  A force as strong as a category five hurricane.  Like Kelly Clarkson wrote in one of her songs, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."  A rejection doesn't kill you - you're not dead yet.   

The very first thing I do with rejection is to stay positive.  Accept the fact, that it wasn't you, your screenplay, your acting, your directing etc., but rather, it just wasn't what the "Gatekeeper" was looking for at this time.  If you don't believe in yourself, how in the world do you expect others to believe in you?  There is someone out there who will discover that you and/or your project is perfect for them.

I also fill my mind with positive thoughts and don't let what others think or feel about me or my projects.  I know who I am and what I am capable of doing.    A perfect example is when I get "Blasted" as self-serving by "Slammers" for advertising my books in my blog.  Instead of letting it worry me or get me down, I think positive.  For instance, "This is my blog."  And, besides that, this blog isn't just for actors, it is also for producers, directors, and screenwriters who want to know about my books.

This means that you have to learn how to divert your attention away from ALL inner negative thoughts and stay focused on your goal.  This doesn't mean not to do a self-reflection for improving  or possibly handling a situation differently in the future.  I like to say, "A setback is nothing more than a setup for a comeback!"  That way, take each "No" or rejection as an opportunity to improve.

Re-engage with activities that put you back in control of your future and career objectives.  Include activities that you are great at to help you feel a sense of achievement.

Stay in contact with those who support you and encourage you.  Remember, in this industry, they have faced the same amount or even more rejections than you have.  In essence, your support team are your kindred spirits.  They understand you and get it!  They know what it is like to go through this.

Review your goals and set new goals if you have too.  Make sure to include small, medium, and large goals.  I like to even post mine on my wall in my office as a constant reminder of what I am wanting to achieve.  But, don't stop there.  Visualize what you would feel when you achieve your goal. 

Lastly, under no circumstances take rejection personally or view it as a personal attack.  The point is that behind this "NO" there is usually something more complex than what you can imagine going on behind the scenes.  To you, it's a simple case of rejection to your audition, screenplay or film.  That means you were on the receiving end of a "No."  To the person who is saying "NO," it is often more difficult on them.  They realize their "No," impacts your future and your dreams.  They acknowledge that you have put your heart and soul into your audition or project and most likely dread the moment of having to choose one actor or project over another.  

Again, I speak from personal experience after casting The Keystroke Killer.  At the same time, it was one of the most joyous moments for Robby and I because we finally could announce the cast; yet, it was the most dreaded as we had to say "no" (reject and pass on) to hundreds of actors.  It really was not only difficult to make these decisions, but it was also very emotional.  We also had to say "no" to many actors who we had become close friends.  We now face the same situation with A.D.A.M.  

The truth is, not everyone will be cast who auditions, nor will every crew who applies be employed.  That's just the way it is.  It has nothing to do with you personally being rejected.  Rather, it is the nature of this  industry.  It also has nothing to do with your worthiness - it's about you going forward, staying positive, and reaching your dreams.  In the end, your dreams will come true.  That a "No" is one step closer to the next "Yes." You have to have so many "No's" before you get to a "Yes."  It's the law of averages. So, be happy with that "No" because you are closer to your "yes."

UPDATE ON DR. MEL'S PROJECTS

By Dr. Melissa Caudle

You know the saying, "If you want something done, give it to a busy person."  Well, that pretty much describes my team over here at On the Lot Productions.  We not only are busy, but we stay busy.  I get asked all the time, "How do you find the time to do everything you do?"  To be perfectly honest, I don't know other than I am surrounded by a great team.  So, let me give you a couple of updates.

THE KEYSTROKE KILLER

We are cast.  YEA!!!  I am looking forward to getting onto to set for filming early next year.  However, it takes a great deal of time to put something of this magnitude in place.  It also takes a very large team.  Frankly, what is happening with it is basically out of my hands other than the screenwriting and revision parts.  Why?  I don't hold the reins so speak as the investor's team does.  

Also, it is the bigwigs and the department heads that are making the decisions on set designs, locations, wardrobes, etc. and not me.  Yes, I'm updated, but because I don't live in Los Angeles I'm not prevy to the day to day operations until about January when the production offices open up etc.  So, just like the cast, I'm now sitting on pins and needles with you.  In fact, they aren't even releasing the scripts yet until all contracts go out in January.  Again, I'm not in charge of them either.  This isn't one of my indie films where I have total control.

It is my understanding that they are applying for their SAG STATUS in November.  That is good news for all of the actors involved.  I have also suggested that they go ahead and submit the project to IMDB.  I'll let you know what they decide to do on that end.

40 & LEROY

We are currently in our third season of 40 & Leroy which is directed and written by Reed McCants.  If you haven't caught a single episode, you can purchase Season 1 & 2 at www.40andleroy.com.  You can also view, for free, Season 3 at the same website or on Blip TV.

 GIRLS GONE GANGSTA

One of the first Indie films that I was an associate producer on, Girls Gone Gangsta, is currently for sale.  If you want to watch this film, directed by the Snider Brothers, and stars John Goodman and Don Mac, you can purchase here at this link.  It is being distributed by Phase 4 Films.  To watch the trailer click on the poster.

VARLA JEAN AND THE MUSHROOMHEADS

This film is complete and currently circulating at film festivals, including this week's New Orleans Film Festival.  Watch the trailer here.

DARK BLUE

The Dark Blue film, produced by New Guy Films in association with On the Lot Productions, directed by David C. Kirtland is currently in final post.  I'll let you know as soon as it is available. 

WATCH THE TRAILER HERE FOR DARK BLUE

WEST NILE VIRUS

Take a peek at the trailer for West Nile Virus, directed and written by Dr. Melissa Caudle.  Casting won't begin probably until the Summer of 2013.

ALL ABOUT A.D.A.M. AND EVE

By Jack Curenton

In the beginning there was light.  More than a billion years later, there was a film called All About Eve.  And, coming in 2013, A.D.A.M., directed and written by Dr. Melissa Caudle.  Of course, if you are a fan of this blog site you already know this.  But, what you don't know is where we are in the casting process.  So, I'll spill the beans.

We are still in the process of accepting auditions from talent agents from Los Angeles, Atlanta, Miami, Dallas, New Orleans, and New York.  We have received the auditions from those we invited and are in the process of reviewing them.  Our plan is to review our A.D.A.M. family group submissions, then the agent submissions.  If we are not able to fill any particular role from there, we will expand our search and open it up to everyone for that role.

Additionally, Dr. Mel is going to sit in on area acting classes to invite actors who each fit role to audition.  She is also considering having the class conduct a cold read audition if they fit the role prior to their submissions.  She has used this process many time before and wants to do it again before she picks the final cast for A.D.A.M.  In fact, she has already made arrangements with Proclaim Talent and Veleka Gray's class.  And, speaking of classes, Dr. Mel wanted me to remind everyone that Christian Stokes is holding his auditioning workshops, so sign up as she want to go there as well.

So hang in there, it isn't over, put we are making progress.

A LIGHT AT THE END OF A DARK TUNNEL

By Robby Cook Stroud

I couldn't help but to share some things with you this week that have been going on in my life.  Like Dr. Mel, I too have faced difficult circumstances and life's disappointments and rejections.  I guess Mic Jaggar was right, "You can't always get what you want."  That doesn't mean we stop trying when you are faced with a dark tunnel.  I just remember to take it one hour at a time each day.

After editing Dr. Mel's Message this week, I received a phone call.  I want to share it with you as a way of saying, never give up.  I hope you find encouragement in this week's Dear Diary, if you are facing a difficult time in your life, or the next time something doesn't go your way.  As I always have said, "Things can always get worse, but count your blessings, when you see the light at the end of a dark tunnel."

Dear Diary,

Today I got a call from one of my applicants from the tornado that destroyed a 12 mile area in Joplin, Missouri last May.  His name is Cordova and is 23-years-old. 

Cordova's housing inspection is one I will carry with me all of my life.  In fact, he calls me every once in a while to give updates on his progress.  So, today's call wasn't something I'd consider as out of the ordinary.

I first met Cordova in Joplin, just a few days after the devastating tornado hit there.   When I arrived, his house he was waiting for me in his car.  His house was totally gone as only traces of rubble were left from being torn a part by the tornado.   

When he got out of his vehicle he was on crutches; both legs were bandaged, and he had a bandage on his head too.    His left nipple was torn off and had to be sewn back on, as well as his left ear. He was extremely happy to see me as he knew what organization I represented - he just needed to know that would be light at the end of his long dark tunnel.

Get the tissues,  your  going to need them as I finish this story.   

Cordova had lived in this house with his parents, his one-year-old son, and his dog prior to the tornado.   He was separated from his wife and that’s why he was living with his parents. 

He said, "When the sirens went off I pushed all of them in the bathtub and laid on top of them all." In a matters of seconds his life changed forever.  The darkest of tunnels seemed to go on forever as he recanted that horrible day.  He could still hear the "Train sound" now of the approaching tornado.

Within seconds, his house was totally gone. His Mom and Dad  were laying in the yard very hurt,  he scrambled to look for his son; which he found two houses over, or should I say two neighbor's yards over.  When he first saw his son, he felt relief.  However, the closer he got to him, fear and panic struck as he soon discovered his son was lifeless and not breathing.  Now, he was at the darkest point of the tunnel.   

By this time I’m crying along with him as he tells me his story. 

The day arrived his parents were still in ICU at the make shift hospital.   His son didn’t make it. 

There was a long silence as we both tried to catch our breath and hold back our tears.  Then he pointed to his dog who was still in the yard, but not alive.  The emotions for him were unbearable, and yet; he somehow had hope and compassion.

At this point I’m trying to console him.  I will never forget that hug that I gave him and he hugged me back what seemed like forever.  Then, we started to get to his property loss.   

He had hope when I left him.

He called me every day for guidance on how to handle his losses although I felt inadequate to help him through it all. Only thing I knew was to listen to him and do what I could to help him recover financially from the loss of his home.  There was nothing that I could ever do to help him recover from the loss of his son other than be there for him.  I went to his son’s funeral which was one of the saddest days of my life.  

Now, back to his reason for calling me with his latest update.  Cordova is doing great.  He and his wife got back together and they just delivered a brand new baby boy today!  They named him Robby.  I am so blessed and for the first-time, I truly believe there is a light at the end of the darkest of tunnels.

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